thread: 2006-04-06 : I roleplay with my penis
On 2006-04-07, Ron Edwards wrote:
Shrug, what's the big deal? Role-playing with women at the table is a sensual experience. Not erotic in the sense of watching porn, not in an erection-inducing or fantasizing sense, but definitely sensual, with sexual undertones.
Always has been. Nothing special about the women in question, nothing different from doing other social stuff with women. Doing nearly any social stuff with women is a sensual experience. Was this supposed to be some kind of big male secret or something?
(Oddly, for me, this observation excludes martial arts, in which that particular switch just flicks off, and always has, from the beginning.)
This makes BL go "Excludes Martial Arts?"
Really? I find that... directly opposite my experience.
This makes Chris go "Martial arts? makes sense"
I generally turn off the "turn on" switch when thinking of violence. I find the two are things I'd rather not hard-wire together in my head.
This makes BR go "I find that I don't always have a choice in what is hardwired in my head."
This makes JAK go "Yeah, Martial Arts"
There may be giggling and socializing afterwards, but yeah, for me too, even in high school and college, that switch always flips off. People that don't tend to not get far, both in martial arts and female socializing.
This makes BR go "Also, RPing with my mother in law wasn't so sensual."
RPing with women certainly can be sensual, but it also depends a lot on the women and my relationship to them. And the definition of the word sensual.
