thread: 2006-12-26 : Merry Zmas
On 2006-12-28, Vincent wrote:
So my habit has been to foist churchgoing off on Meg, denying that I care very much, aside from the plain discomfort I feel at service iteself. But then we were driving home from her mom's Christmas Eve service and, y'know, I didn't need our congregation's instability this fall. Maybe Meg didn't too, and maybe Meg was more involved in it and thus more directly affected by it than I was, but still I was involved and I was affected and I didn't need it. Church can be part of my life on my terms, and those terms include, baseline, it not compounding my grief with its hassles.
Julia - I don't know. I'm feeling unkind today, so my assessment of what UUs do and why they do it is harsh - maybe I'll keep it to myself.
